Happy Valentine’s Day alternatives. I have never been the biggest fan of Valentine’s Day. It is a holiday that I feel should be represented every day of the year. But I realize that for some people that Valentine’s Day is a very special day. So with that, I hope your Valentine’s Day is everything you wanted and more.
I am not your typical Valentine’s Day lover nor do I want all the typical Valentine’s Day gifts that come along with the day. Most couples plan a nice fancy dinner for two, along with the cards, candies, and flowers. All these things a great but I would rather have some alternatives instead.
Valentine’s Day Alternatives
Valentine’s Day is a holiday that is celebrated each year. The holiday has been celebrated for decades. But this year may look a little different with the country being socially distanced and in some places shut down. So what are we going to do to celebrate this holiday?
Instead of Candy
Chocolates are associated with Valentine’s Day. Not really sure how they became such a staple piece but many couples buy some form of it on this holiday. I think because it is such a sweet-tasting snack that people like to splurge for it each year.
What is funny is that some people’s New Years’ resolution is to get into shape or lose weight. But a month later they are eating chocolate. I know dark chocolate has some healthy aspects but only in moderation.
So, what should replace those yummy morsels? Maybe something that lasts a bit longer than sweets. Something that you can place in your home and remember that it came from this special day.
Instead of Flowers
Roses have become the main Valentine’s Day flower. Couples buy a bouquet of flowers to give to their loved ones on this holiday. Yes, I agree flowers are pretty and smell good but in a few days to a week, those flowers are going to be wilting and dropping petals.
So, instead of flowers that will last a week why not get a green indoor plant. A plant adds warmth and coziness to your home. It also helps provide fresh air within your house. Even if you do not have a green thumb there are plenty of gorgeous faux plants that you can add to your home that require less attention.
Instead of a Fancy Dinner
Going out for dinner on Valentine’s day is nice. Able to dress up and have a nice quiet meal with your loved one. Thinking about 2020 and the beginning of 2021 most restaurants are closed or not allowing in door seating. Just because these places are closed does not mean you have to give up your dinner date.
Instead, maybe ordering out and eating your dinner in the comfort of your home. You can dress up or dress down, whatever makes you feel like you are still celebrating the holiday. I am looking forward to some chips and queso!
Instead of a Card
The price of a well written and pretty card continues to increase every year. Most cards get read and then just thrown in the trash. Instead of throwing your money at big companies, write a letter to your significant other. Something that comes from your heart is going to mean much more than a card that someone else wrote.
Conclusion
No matter how you celebrate Valentine’s day just make sure you show love to your other half or kiddos. I personally feel like we shouldn’t need a holiday to show our love but to take that day and show them extra love.
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I hope you found something useful or try something new for Valentine’s Day. Happy Valentine’s Day alternatives.
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22 Comments
Amber Myers
These are some wonderful alternatives. My husband is deployed so I’ll just be at home with lots of chocolate and chick flicks.
Julia Hess
Aww I hope you have a wonderful time watching movies and hope you can celebrate with your hubby soon!!
Lisa
Thank you for this alternative list. An indoor plant makes a nice change from the standard roses (though still pretty!)
Julia Hess
I am such a plant lover and would much rather have one to thrive instead of dying flowers. Thank you.
Priya|how to be a positive parent
I agree with you , chocolates make you fat and flowers will eventually die. Personally, I don’t feel that there should be a special day in the year to say I love you to someone. According to me, everyday is a valentine day!
Julia Hess
Exactly!! I agree 100% with you.
Tara Pittman
This Valentines day will be focused on family activities. I think making a dessert and a movie is what I will do
Julia Hess
Oh that is amazing. That sounds like a great plan.
Sarah
I love these suggestions! Especially the plant in lieu of flowers! I also love doing a special dinner at home. We usually do a fondue dinner at home and it’s so fun and relaxing!
Julia Hess
Fondue sounds delicious. If my boys wouldn’t make a huge mess with it, maybe when they are a little older.
Em Aban
Valentines day is celebrating love not just in romantic ways. I would love to just spend it at home, in the living room watching a good movie and good food and yes some chips with family 🙂 . Love your suggestions though 🙂
Julia Hess
Yes, completely agree. Thank you.
Leanne Wong
These are really thoughtful and sweet alternatives to typical Valentine’s day celebrations! There are many ways to celebrate love and to show appreciation.
Julia Hess
I agree. I think each couple needs to come up with the best ways to show appreciation because everyone is different.
Natalia
It’s always good to look for alternatives! I don’t have anyone to spend my Valentine’s yet, but I love the ideas you’ve proposed here. 🙂
Julia Hess
Thank you so much!
Monidipa
These are great alternatives. But no matter what, I never celebrate Valentine’s day!
Julia Hess
Haha, I am not a big celebrator of the holiday either but we will do something special for the day. Thank you!
Lyosha
Great alternate list. I do think I’ll go with chocolate though but mostly because my partner is huge on chocolate so it will make him very happy. also we will probably bake at home
Julia Hess
Definitely have to keep them happy! Baking at home sounds nice, hope you have a wonderful holiday.
Nyxie
Great ideas! A lot of these I wouldn’t even have thought of.
Julia Hess
Thank you!